With Christmas just around the corner comes a time when many of us like to over-indulge. This can mean drinking a lot more alcohol than usual. I remember how I used to use the festive period as an excuse to buy much more red wine that I would normally have (as if I wasn’t having …
Why the thought of quitting drinking seems so hard (and what to do about it)
I remember exactly how it felt. I would drink red wine (heavily) every evening, then the next day through my foggy head I would feel a sense of regret alongside unease and worry about the damage the daily boozing was doing to my mind and my body. But the thought of stopping drinking just seemed …
How long does it take before it gets easier after you stop drinking?
I am often asked how long it takes for the challenging period to subside when you first give up drinking and to be in a place where the thoughts of alcohol are few and far between. When you stop drinking alcohol the first week or two can feel like a really tough challenge, you will …
My 10 Step Formula to Stopping Drinking Alcohol
I get asked quite a lot how I went from drinking a bottle of wine (or more) every day to stopping drinking alcohol forever. It wasn’t easy at the start, I found the hardest part was getting beyond the first day. After twenty plus years of drinking wine every day it was a hard habit …
How to get past Day 1 of not drinking alcohol
When I made the decision to stop drinking alcohol it took me quite a few attempts to get past Day 1. Here I was, age 44 having drunk red wine pretty much every night for the last twenty (or more) years, this was going to be hard. I relied on wine to unwind at the …
How to put the glass down and stop drinking
How to put the glass down and stop drinking I am writing this after 58 days of not drinking and have been thinking about how hard I found it to actually say STOP. The 57 days that have followed on my sober journey have been far easier than the fear and dread that accompanied the …